Courtship of late is taking a back seat. With busy work schedules it is becoming a burden we all can do without. But nothing can cause you much agony than marrying a person you thought you knew when you dated, but a few months after the wedding turns into a monster you never imagined.
A house is one of major investment a married couple will undertake,consultation in this area is crucial to avoid conflicts.
Jane has been married to Harry for three years now and they already have two children. The marriage started on a high and Jane was on cloud seven throughout. Just like all the newly married couples they had big dreams. They shared their dreams daily as they continued enjoying the marital bliss.
“In the next 30 years I want to be a successful wife and a mother. I want to have a family that others admire and want to emulate,” I said to a hushed classroom.
Now that’s an absurd vision, I could read the reaction from my classmates. Who even thinks of being a wife and a mother as a goal in this age of contractual marriages? Shouldn’t a young lady doing her masters be thinking of being a change ambassador?
Drama in marriages will never end. And it seems men are finding it difficult to zip up and in the process causing embarrassment to family.
For a long time an accusing finger has been pointed to our house helps as the source of headache for many wives. Some wives have resorted to changing house helps so often after realizing that they are mistresses to their husbands.
Divorce is on the increase in USA and Africa is catching up
Each one of us has that longing to find a special one. Many dream of the day they will finally say ‘I do” that prince charming if they are ladies and ‘mother of my children’ for the African men.
Event the many who verbally denounce marriage during their drunken stupor ponder about life after marriage. The lovely kids,the beautiful wife and the dark tall handsome man they will belong exclusively to them. Marriage for those who have working marriages is sweet but it can also be a source of pain for million others.